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For at least a week every month, specialist mental health nurse Aimee feels like a different person. Sometimes she feels a deep paranoia, or a sense of despair, like something catastrophic is happening.

Other times, she feels anxious and scared, and wants to be completely alone. Then there鈥檚 trouble sleeping, with jolts of fear when she wakes, plus headaches and changes in appetite. At its worst, Aimee feels an acute depression and even suicidal thoughts. 

Aimee has premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) 鈥� a complex hormone-based mood disorder that manifests as a severe form of premenstrual syndrome (PMS), with extreme mood changes, anxiety, sleep disturbance and physical symptoms that start in the luteal phase, 1鈥�2 weeks before a person gets their period.

PMDD is a chronic condition that is frequently under-recognised and under-diagnosed. 

Knowing what鈥檚 normal

鈥淎s a teenager, I wasn鈥檛 really sure what was normal for a menstrual cycle, or PMS, I was just told about the bleeding, and then you just sort of get on with it,鈥� says Aimee. 鈥淚 was also overweight from the age of 23 and my periods weren鈥檛 always regular, but I was never taught to tune in and track my monthly cycle.鈥�

After a weight loss surgery in 2019, Aimee鈥檚 periods became more regular and with that she began to experience what she now knows were the first symptoms of PMDD, aged 31.

 

I was asking myself: have I always felt this bad and just not realised? 

  

鈥淚 received a late diagnosis of ADHD when I was 33. With changes to my understanding of self and the use of medication, my ADHD symptoms were soon under control, but these other symptoms were still occurring every single month. I was asking myself: have I always felt this bad and just not realised? 

鈥淚 started looking into PMDD online and found a cycle tracker.鈥�

After 3 months of filling in the tracker, Aimee could see a pattern. 鈥淭here were 7鈥�10 days each month where I felt totally incapable,鈥� she says. 鈥淭he more I learned, the more I realised I wasn鈥檛 being dramatic or oversensitive, I was unwell.鈥�

Aimee contacted the 鈥� a group of mental health professionals 鈥� and began therapy.

I felt validated for the first time 

She also presented her findings to her GP. 鈥淭here I was armed with my trackers and my hours of research, fully ready to be told: 鈥榊es, we all have PMS, it鈥檚 just life!鈥�, but instead I saw my brilliant GP who specialises in women鈥檚 health. I felt validated for the first time,鈥� she says.

 鈥淥nce you鈥檙e over the stigma, there鈥檚 a freedom in knowing that even though most months are as difficult as the last, there is a reason and it will pass.鈥�

Treatment options

Treatment for PMDD can include a combination of lifestyle changes, talking therapies, complementary therapies, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or hormone treatment to suppress ovulation. For Aimee, it鈥檚 been a case of trying different treatments to work out what suits her. 

鈥淎 big step forward was communicating about my condition with my employer,鈥� she explains. 鈥淚鈥檝e always been open, and I realise it鈥檚 easier said than done, but it was incredibly well received by my line manager.鈥�

Aimee鈥檚 manager made reasonable adjustments which account for her luteal phase. This includes not seeing brand new patients during this time: 鈥淚nstead, I do follow-ups with people who know me.鈥�

This window is also marked in her calendars at work and at home so her colleagues and family members are aware she might not be feeling well on these days.

鈥淚 also do what work I can from home so if I need a cry or a nap I can do that in safety of my own space,鈥� she adds. 鈥淚 realise these adjustments wouldn鈥檛 be suitable for every role, but it鈥檚 helped me a lot.鈥�

Recognising symptoms

Does Aimee have any advice for those who recognise the symptoms in themselves? 鈥淒ownload a tracker,鈥� Aimee says. 鈥淕ive yourself permission to reflect every day for 2-3 months and look at the trend. Take it to your GP. Tell them: I鈥檝e read about this condition and I think it might apply to me.鈥�

A combination of psychological support and treatment has helped Aimee manage the condition, but it鈥檚 not always easy. 鈥淎ll of this doesn鈥檛 make it go away, of course, but being on a treatment plan that includes vitamins, diet, and exercise certainly does help.鈥�

Informing practice

A positive, Aimee says, is that having PMDD has hugely informed her 汤头条污料 practice. “With my patients I’m more inclined to ask questions and consider symptoms. All 汤头条污料 staff need to be aware and incorporate it into our thinking,” she says.

“We often ask about appetites, sleep habits and so on. We need to include periods and PMS symptoms. If someone you’re caring for is saying that PMS symptoms are so severe they feel like a different person, we need to think: could it be PMDD?”

Employers too, need to be aware. “With PMDD what we’d be looking for is compassion and reasonable adjustments at a specific time in a person’s cycle,” Aimee says. 

If we don't talk about it, lives will be lost

There’s an urgency here – the condition can lead to profound mental suffering and 34% of people with PMDD have attempted suicide, according to the .

“If we don’t talk about it, lives will be lost,” Aimee says. “When my PMDD has been bad, I’ve never experienced a darkness and fear like it. But if you can work towards a diagnosis and understanding, there is help and support out there. We can find a way through the darkest times.”